Who Are You? Who Am I?

Cultivating Kinder Relationships with the Enneagram

A 3-day Weekend Retreat - Discover the answers through insightful exploration of the enneagram, as well as daily yoga and meditation.

Where: Brightlands Retreat Centre, Leura.

When: March 2024 Event Rescheduled - Spring 2024 dates to be Published Soon - please register interest

What’s my potential?
Why do I sabotage myself?  What is my life’s purpose?
How can I create the changes that I dream of in myself and my life?
Why do others think, feel & behave so differently and how do I relate when we seem so different?

Millions of individuals are grappling with these questions, in the face of conflicting messages about who we should be, how to behave and what’s important in life, how do you decide what advice is best?

At this 3 day retreat, you will discover the answers through insightful exploration of the enneagram, as well as daily yoga & meditation.

The enneagram - meaning map of 9 - is a spiritual & psychological tool, that offers deep insight into personality, including our motivations, fears & defence mechanisms that often lay buried in the unconscious layers of our personality.

It helps you to understand why & how it is that you are as you are, supporting your mental, emotional and spiritual growth.

As you deepen your awareness of what drives you, so too you deepen your understanding of others, cultivating kinder, respectful relationships built on peaceful connection & belonging.

group yoga

Takeaways, you can expect to gain from this retreat include:

  • Understanding your strengths & motivations;
  • How to deal with stressful situations, especially when you feel stuck and/or confused;
  • What leads to self-sabotage and how to put an end to it, before it derails you;
  • Why you get triggered and how to regulate yourself;
  • Your blind spots – how to be more aware of what’s going on for you
  • How do get what you want;
  • How to better deal with conflict;
  • Your soul’s purpose, the specific value and virtues you bring to the world


I came to the Retreat to sit with some big decisions. I hoped to gain clarity and find some peace around my purpose and which way to move forward.

The experience and the insights I gained from the weekend has allowed me to discover an authentic sense of self. I can accept the way I feel, knowing I have the tools to choose how I respond. This means greater calm, clarity and purpose for me.

It was lovely to meet new people and share wonderful food during our meal breaks.

I don’t usually do yoga, but this yoga was different, more holistic and meditative…bringing me into the present.

Because of the design of the course, there is literally something for everyone to connect to, learn about themselves and grow from over this weekend. Just do it!

During this 3 day retreat, you will gain:

  • Insight into the 9 personality types of the enneagram.
  • Recognise the passions & virtues of each type, including your "self".
  • Develop appreciation & empathy for yourself & others
  • Recognise blind spots & patterns that lead to self sabotage
  • Better boundaries
  • Understanding of yours & others fears & passions.
  • Development strategies for your emotional & spiritual growth.

Here’s how it will run:

After registration, you will receive a link to complete the enneagram questionnaire.  Upon completion, you will receive your  comprehensive 25-page personalised report, valued at $250 detailing your:

  •  Fears & defence mechanisms.
  • Dominant ways of expressing yourself.
  •  Primal motivations. 
  • Interaction style and conflict style.
  • What creates stress & drains your energy.
  • How to broaden your perspective.
  •   Developing empathy & compassion.

We are delighted to be partnering with Brightlands Retreat Centre, Leura in Spring 2024

Your retreat includes:

Luxury accommodation - Choose the luxury of a private room, some with ensuites or opt to share with a friend or fellow guest in a twin share room.

All meals - Vegan, vegetarian and ethically sourced ingredients prepared by their award winning Chef.  You will leave feeling nourished and re–fuelled.

Yoga & Meditation - Unwind and reconnect with your inner self.

Enneagram - All enneagram retreat workshops, materials, testing & report.

Retreat Itinerary

  • Arrival Day

  • Day One 

  • Day Two

  • Last Day

Afternoon arrival
  • 14:00  - Check in, relax & unwind
  • 18:00 - Dinner
  • 19:00 - Welcome circle
  • 20:00 - Free time
  • 21:00 - Bed time

Choose your accommodation package and pay directly here.

The venue includes a spa if you should wish to enjoy a treatment at your own expense during your retreat.

Turn UP Your Zen


I joined Tania’s Kinder Relationships workshop because I wanted to transition to a more balanced lifestyle for my long-term health. After attending the Kinder Relationships retreat, I feel empowered to make better choices. Tania gave me a workable framework to understand myself and achieve the best outcomes, without needing people around me to make that change. It has improved my confidence to start making relationship choices and I feel very lucky to have chanced upon this kind of guidance!

My name is Tania, I’m a mindfulness & Enneagram coach, who supports people who are looking for answers to reduce inner-conflict, overcome self sabotage, improve relationships and create more joy, peace & happiness in their lives